We all have experienced this, one way or another, that whatever good you do there’ll always be someone out there to ridicule you. Maybe you answered a tough question in class, and someone muttered, “Show-off.” Or you tried to help a friend, and another person accused you of trying too hard. Maybe you worked extra hard on a project, and someone rolled their eyes instead of cheering you on.

It’s life; a natural phenomenon that’s pretty much beyond one’s control. Nevertheless, you shouldn’t stop just because of that.

Not Everyone Sees Things the Same Way

Imagine standing in front of a painting. One person sees something breathtaking, another sees a mess of colors, and someone else couldn’t care less. The painting doesn’t change—only the way people look at it does.

The same goes for you. The positive results from your hard work, your cause to help others, or even your notable efforts to pursue your dreams, some people will be inspired. They’ll see your dedication and feel encouraged to do better themselves. Then there are those who will feel irritated, maybe because they don’t understand, maybe because they’re struggling with their own insecurities, or maybe even they wish they had the same courage. But know this, none of that is your problem.

You can’t control how people see you. But you can control what you do.

Doing Good Isn’t About Being Liked

It’s easy to believe that doing the right thing will make everyone happy. But life, as unpredictably mysterious as it is, doesn’t work that way. If you spend all your time trying to keep everyone pleased, you’ll end up like an icicle—or worse, a robot, too afraid to take action because someone might not approve.

Think about the people you admire—whether they’re leaders, artists, inventors, or someone in your own life. Did they stop because others disagreed with them? No. They kept going. And that’s exactly why they made a difference.

The truth is, if you start working toward something important—be it to excel in school, to learn a new skill, or to stand up for what’s right—you will be criticized. It’s a given. But that doesn’t mean you’re wrong and that you should forgo what it is that you’re trying to achieve. It simply means you’re doing something that stands out. It borders on the fact that your value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth.

Stay True to Yourself

If you believe in something, go for it. If you have a dream, chase it. If you want to help others, do it. You don’t need permission from the world to be yourself.

Sure, some people will appreciate you for it. Others won’t. And that’s okay.

You’re not responsible for how others feel about your actions—only for making sure your actions come from a good place. The goal isn’t to be liked by everyone. It’s to be honest with yourself and keep growing.

The Bottom Line

Not everyone will like what you do, and that’s perfectly fine. What matters is that you stay true to yourself, continue learning, and make a positive impact in the ways that matter to you.

• If you inspire someone—great.
• If you annoy someone—so be it.

Do it anyway!

Editing & Narrative Direction: IBSU Library & Information

Disclaimer: This article encourages confidence, self-expression, and persistence. While it supports staying true to yourself, it doesn’t advocate ignoring helpful feedback or acting without thought for others. Always aim to be kind, respectful, and aware of how your actions affect those around you.